Anonymous: so there's this guy who's been a dick to me so i know i shouldn't be giving him the time of day or wasting my time or energy thinking about him but i cant help it. i dont know how i feel about him anymore, im always annoyed at him but at the same time i still care about him. im just sad how the way things ended, and i know he's upset that he's lost me. i just cant go a day without thinking about him but at the same time i dont want to be with him because he'll just hurt me again. ugh emotions

You can’t live life without taking chances. Talk to him. 

posted 1 year ago

Anonymous: Me and my boyfriend of 8 months always fight over stupid things but we turn them into bigger things than they are. That kind of drama is upsetting and usually my fault. Lately, I keep having urges to cheat with my ex-boyfriend. I know this would kill my extremely loyal boyfriend so shhould I go on a break in our relationship, kiss my ex and see if it eases my urges or what? Please just come up with ideas and advice?? xx I'm a girl! I need attention and drama in my life that is exciting for ME.

I’ve done this before and it wasn’t worth it, yeah it “eased my urges” but the person I was in a relationship with meant more to me in the long run. Your ex is your ex for a reason, if you cheat you’re going to destroy your current boyfriend’s piece of mind and your ex won’t take you serious. If you really aren’t sure how you’re feeling then take a break to think things through, but don’t do anything too serious or wrecking. Think of everything you’ve been through and realize if you really want it to end because you think you like someone else. If you need attention and drama in your life and want to cause this by cheating on your boyfriend, maybe a relationship isn’t the best for you right now. Maybe you should go out, and meet new people. Best of luck

posted 1 year ago


“People have said over the years that the reason I did not give up my seat was because I was tired. I did not think of being physically tired. My feet were not hurting.
 I was tired in a different way. I was tired of seeing so many men treated as boys and not called by their proper names or titles. I was tired of seeing children and women mistreated and disrespected because of the color of their skin. I was tired of Jim Crow laws, of legally enforced racial segregation.” - Rosa Parks, civil rights activist who would have turned 100 years old today
Which baby are you?


So is this accurate for you, or not so much?







Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn. Repost this in 5 mins and you will meet someone new in 8 days that will perfectly balance your personality.


Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions. Repost this in 5 mins and you will talk to someone new and realize that you are a perfect match.


Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others. If you repost this in the next 5 mins, you will meet your new love in 8 days.


Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confidant. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains. If you repost this in 5 mins, a cutie that’s caught your eye will introduce themselves and you will realize that you are very much alike in the next 2 days.


Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High-spirited. If you repost this in the next 5 minutes, you will become close to someone you do not speak too much in the next 4 days.


You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie. It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!! IN the next 6 days you will meet someone that may possibly become one of your closest friends, if you repost this in 5 minutes.


Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. Repost this in the next 5 mins and your reputation will boost someway in the next 12 days


Outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. No self-control. Kind hearted. Self-confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an “every thing’s peachy” attitude. Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. In need of “that someone”. Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by “no pain no gain” caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. “charming” or “beautiful” to everyone. stubborn. curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter. Repost in 5 mins and you will meet the love of your life sometime next month.


Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand. If you do not repost this in the next 5 mins, someone very close to you will become mad at you in the next 8 days.


Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all. repost this in 5 mins or you will not meet the love of your life for 10 years.


Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind. Repost in 5 mins & you will excel in a major event coming up sometime this month.


This straight-up means you are the most good-looking person possible… Better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music. Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.

pretty accurate

Wow a horoscope thing that actually kind of fits me.

Mine is not 100% accurate. Not really at all.

Im a march Baby. So thats like.. 99.9% acurate.. Lol

posted 1 year ago

“When you say “no,” and you mean “no,” and the other person, regardless of whether it’s in a situation where somebody wants to attack you or a situation where somebody wants to change your opinion…
When you say no, and the other person continues, you should think immediately — not “how do I make it nice, how do I make it better” — but immediately think why is this person trying to control me because “no” is a complete sentence.”


A celebrity who’s got her head screwed on right

i’ve reblogged this so much
Anonymous: what should i do when i've gotten hot and heavy with this guy i've had history with because he said we'd go on a date but he hasn't followed me up on our plans? should i let him know i'm annoyed that he told me we'd go out to breakfast but he didnt get in touch with me after we hooked up?

:l like my previous message before, a lot of guys can be like that, unfortunately. He probably just wanted to “hit it and quit it.” and it’s pretty much what he did. This doesn’t make you a slut nor does it mean you’re easy. It does not mean you are not not good enough. Don’t let him make you feel like you’re anything less than amazing. Honestly, many kids at a teenage age are in the phase of just doing things for a thrill and not really thinking of the consequences or how others feel during/afterwards. If you want, you can let him know how you feel. He may have genuinely been busy, and forgot. Or you can just let it go, and move on. It’s up to you but don’t get your hopes up too high in case you’ll get disappointed afterwards. Good luck beautiful

posted 1 year ago

Anonymous: The guy I been talking to for 6 whole months has been distant. He takes his time with replys. He has all these girls after him and it makes me feel insecure. I feel like he has such high standards and im never going to live up to them. He says he wants to make me happy and he'll change but hes still the same and im still unhappy. I guess its hard to just walk out because I gave him my all. I lost my virginity to the kid. Hes met my family. He means everything to me. I dont want him to leave me.

:/ That’s a tough one and unfortunately, it happens to a lot of teenage girls. Some guys can be such douche bags, it sucks. Really. I hate to break it to you, but you’re probably right, he probably is chasing after these girls. But don’t be insecure. He should be the insecure one, after all he feels the needs to have all these girls on him so he can feel better about himself. You DON’T need those type of people in your life. A lot of people regret their first time, so don’t feel too alone on that although it may really upset. I’m really sorry. I could understand why he means so much to you. If you want to try, before jumping into any specific conclusions, talk to him about how you feel. Tell him that you feel he’s being distant and that you miss the way things used to be. If it’s still not the same as before, it probably never will be. And that’s okay. People grow apart and you just have to let go. Don’t make excuses for a man and his behavior, you should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is a two way street. A man who really loves you would do anything for you. Really, he is just a boy. If he acts like that. One day he’ll grow up and he’ll regret it. But as of now, my best advice would be to learn from the past, and let your past make you better not bitter. Let it go. Don’t have sex until you know you’re absolutely ready, the right guy WILL wait. 

posted 1 year ago